.Yet what Astrid does not understand but is an honest truth that both Ortega and also O'Hara-- that has 2 kids-- can easily verify: The reality that your partnership with your parents changes and also grows as you both age, and perhaps for the better. "Your globe facilities around [your little ones] when they're children [and] it is actually a lot work but beautiful," O'Hara claims. "Later on, you really skip that, because after that you can't receive them to perform anything you prefer them to accomplish, given that they begin establishing their own minds, their own opinions." As well as inevitably, you end up in the spot O'Hara, whose boys are in their 20s and 30s, finds herself right now, able to learn from her youngsters. "They're merely such great youthful fellas," she claims. "I'm not their buddy, however I really love having discussions with them as well as getting to know exactly how they think about life.".